Drinking wine, spirits, and the like has been at the center of social occasions since the Greeks and Romans. Even on today’s healthy living scene, beer yoga, workouts-and-wine, and mindful cocktail nights foster engagement in what many love to call “healthy moderation.” But in a number of wellness circles, people are calling time on casual drinking, simply because it makes them feel like, well, crap. Or because the 12-step model of addiction isn’t really a fit for these abstainers who are